On how I decided to be open and honest, and apparently am not the only one
I just read this article about "love in capitalist times", which resonates with many of the things that have been on mind since some time now ( although I do not identify with everything that is said here) . T he article is in Polish, so I translated an excerpt for those of you who do not speak Polish (big mistake, big mistake folks :p): “Concerning the ‘games’ and ‘intrigues’ that women are said to play in romantic relationships – the world forces them to do so. That’s also why jokes and memes about [a so-called] ‘female logic’ or rather women’s lack thereof, about how difficult it is to understand women, and how absurd is their ‘thinking something, doing something else’ principle, are misplaced. It’s not a question of [a female] nature, but of socialization. It’s a bit as if you trained a dog and then made fun of him for obeying. It’s true – it is difficult to really learn to know and understand someone who has been taught that telling the truth about their needs and de